What do you want the story of your life to be? What do you want written on your tombstone? I don’t mean what do you claim to want, but what do your actions say you want on your tombstone?
Is your sexual identity the most prominent item on your portfolio? Do you mostly see yourself as the one whom people reject? Do people who talk to you know that you will “put them in their place”?
Do you bring peace? Do you remind people of the sunset beneath the golden linings? Do you encourage, inform, or advise?
What’s your auto-epitaph?