Jesse Steele

There’s a reason nice guys finish last. It can be good to be nice, but niceness is not the only part of a well-balanced character. The will to jump for cash is frowned upon by many moral-minded “better-thans”. So much evil is done in the name of so-called “virtue”. Even the desire to be a good person often cloaks a feeling of superiority.

So, that hesitancy to leap at the chance to make money—was it really, purely virtue? Or, was it a way to feel holier than others while staying inside the comfort zone? Earning money is also virtuous.  · · · →

It’s easy to cross the line of deception quickly. When someone makes a promise, then breaks it with a smile, that’s what we call a “clue”. One of the greatest dangers is people who seem to care, while their constant recommendation is to waste time; mealtime is an all time favorite.

Jesus taught his disciples by working together in daily life and chores. Of course they ate together, but how much time do church-goers work together versus eat together? They say they work for some Great Commission; how’s that going? Is it daily chores or wasted chatter as a clue?  · · · →

By definition, criticism cannot be constructive when its motivated by disappointment. Three “nevers” can guide you: Never object to mistakes you knew about before hand, but waited until after failure to care about. Never offer a critique without focusing on a clear and helpful path forward. Never used the phrase “that’s on you”.

If you can’t say anything good, don’t say anything at all. When you point the finger, at least three of your own point straight back at you. We all have plenty of blame to go around. That’s why leaders with winning teams find only solutions, never blame.  · · · →

One, single choice may put you on a path you can never escape. You may have made a mistake. Then you find out the consequences. They may be ugly. But, that doesn’t mean it’s “game over”. You have people who will go with you all the way.

When you make a choice, you put your friends and family on a permanent path they must travel with you. If you’re unhappy, next time discuss first, not after. You can win. You can thrive. But, there are new rules of every road you chose. Only winners accept those rules and press on.  · · · →