Inside every moment is a universe unto itself. Our mind time can empower us or cripple us—and it usually is the source of our power or brokenness. The sneaky part is whether our mind time contains ourselves or others.
Life should be about others; our mind time should not be. When other people live in your mind, you are not taking responsibility. When we spend our time thinking about others, we never have the mind to consider others—it’s different. Obsessing about other people invades their universe and neglects our own. Tending to your own universe is utterly selfless.