Orange can’t be purple. This may seem unfair, but any other way would be unfair to everyone because sunsets would not be beautiful.
We look at many activities and ask about our “rights” or “why God is or isn’t angry”. When, in fact, it’s not our actions that matter as much as the results of our actions.
Actions may seem benign in themselves, or harmful. Often, however, the opposite proves true with the results. And it is the results that determine whether actions are good or bad. Being honest with ourselves about our actions is part of growing up.